I tried several times to con myself that perhaps my gut instinct was off, I'd since found out she was a Libra, I'd never met one until then (that's a whole 36 years without knowing a Libra, I wasn't missing anything). Libras have a reputation for being able to hide their emotions well. Guys you are reading an article about the DARK SIDE of Libra, of course you are going to read a lot of bad things! This will help her reach a state of mind that is more stable and tranquil. Our empathic abilities allows us to see inside you and we can pull out the most sensitive things that no one knows and use them as weapons to destroy your very being if we are crossed. my libra daughter who is 17 has buddied up with my libra mother and she doesnt understand the evil in my mother. Pretending to be nice is so much more hurtful than being honest. Often, they can feel hopeless, but they. Aries does not like anyone to know their weaknesses, so if they feel sad, it often comes across as anger or frustration. Or when she brought home a kitten who was kept locked in a bedroom so for 6-12 hours ( usually for a long time )so she wouldnt be bothered because the kitten wanted to play. It's an incredibly difficult situation to be in when people don't believe you're telling the truth or being real. Trying to keep everything balanced and perfect and then blaming myself if everyone isn't happy. For me i prefer friends who speak brutal true than sweet but fake words. Peace. Im dealing with a libra mom. )are NOT COMPATIBLE? 2. In fact the way one reacts to whatever angers them is much more beyond a zodiac sign. I am a bi Leo female and fell for this Libra woman, who I have been friends with for around 2-3 years, and fell for her over a year ago. The secret to any Sun in Libra is they hate to be alone. They also crave balance, and they can be equally as self-indulgent as they are generous. He's been nicer to me than when I was younger, but I can't erase my past memories and my feelings are of a great pain still because I can't forgive him at all even tho he's nice and the most helpful person in my family at the moment. And sometimes I feel terrible about myself because I constantly fight my own feeling of wanting him to rotten in hell, because I feel I shouldn't as he's my brother. A Libra woman may choose to no longer focus on aspects of her life that she once valued. They will go to great lengths to achieve it, but those lengths depend on that particular Libra. Even the most healthiest Libran is prone to snacking on sweets. The list below will give you insight into how a Libra woman may act when sad. She may choose to focus her social and emotional energy on new relationships. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. I realize Libras can be a handful and it takes a special person to be with one of us; but may I suggest to all of you that the moment you find out a person is a Libra, turn on your heel and run. When she is feeling down, she may decide that she needs to end relationships or start new ones. The males appear to be charming, romantic and very friendly. I told her he didn't think it wise to take "sides" and wanted to stay out of it. How To Impress Libra Men? Like the diet sodas they love, negative Librans are artificially sweet. She may choose to pour all of her time and energy into a single task, while simultaneously ignoring more pragmatic or practical concerns. The women love only themselves, crave attention, are users, connive to no end, but claim its never their fault BALANCE, where? They are freaking insecure. Not one good libra i came along,what's wrong with this sign ,i mean seriously? other than my mom, i love libras!!! It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. nothing was her fault. So sometimes, they might hide their emotions to maintain their image. I am a few years late in reading your amazing and very poignant article regarding The Dark Side of Saccharine Libra, but I am soo glad I found it. That would be my control issue. Fang you at this point. And I know that Libra's have dark side, and how deep it truly goes. They will bottle up their feelings and keep it to themselves instead of being advocates of communication in relationships. Godfather to her daughter and son her parents never had. They will never make her needs for materialistic stability happy, nor her emotional driven self to be happy. Libra loves to cooperate and is incredibly diplomatic, so she'll be right there with you throughout the entire apology making sure you both are on the same page. The thing I don't like is how they can gossip VERY negatively about people (behind their back) but talk in their "sweet tones" and are charming and complimentary to you in person -- that you may not know that the Libra IS the source of the negative and/or false rumors. Answer The Lion's Paw- A Libra is ruled by their emotions and intuition. The only reason I can think of is that, it is because we hide ourself so well in public that we carry all the annoyances and irritation back home, to a place we do not need to hide and while at home, the slightest irritation can wreck havoc. Turned to a puppy, sorry from heaven to hell. For me, it was to my defend my kids and anytime she went past the line of reason in punishing them, I was right there to invoke the one thing Librans are good at, utilizing and that is our rather sharp tongue. As a result, you hide your sadness, fear, frustration, and other so-called negative emotions. Even u. Because of your interest in an Aquarius woman in your , The relationship that you maintain with an Aquarius man must , It is likely that you will find that the behaviors , If you want to show your guy just how much , Regardless of the nature of your relationship, it is certain , what happens when each zodiac sign is sad, how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra woman. Im a gemini. And booooyyyyyy. My friend never said a single word ever. She also cries at the drop of a hat. The signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings aren't always that obvious but you can't really ignore the fact that he constantly smiles and laughs around you and his eyes are always sparkling when he sees you. Ive tried to reach him but he wont answer. They are usually gentle and slow to anger, but can turn vicious in a moment if need be. As a Libran myself, I can see all my negative traits, for example; A technique that strangely comes naturally to me. Libras aren't always recognized for being sensitive. He's sick but I don't know what to do now because I've reached an adult age and have lived with the nightmare of those horrible experiences in my life. They are popular works as well and everything that motivates them is to please themselves under the guise of providing the other. (2) Really? I hate drama, and i am not sociable either. What The. She will start to talk about God, religion, peace, until she gets her way again and start to manipulate others so much. My mom is a libra and she is exactly like that. Although, they feel pain and are disappointed at their situation, their charm and their ability to maintain a peace of mind gets them to move on and find someone who can heal their broken heart. Damn straight go right out of my life. They're fairly intolerable to sadness and dissociate from their feelings when possible. Loyalty well basically they have none. And wanted an apology. I'm an aries and I had a libra completely ghost me for years because ofwell I can't even remember what the problem was, but I tried to talk to her about it and she just closed the door in my face basically. Its not that I love the Libra guy. With their words, Libras can easily make a fool of belligerent and uncouth individuals who act as though the world revolves around them. I don't even let libras or those with venus or mars in libra close to me. I was terrified. If peace cant be had, silence and secrets will do. You've hit every nail on the head (or should I say the nail to every Psychic Vampyre Libran's Coffin.. ). but they need to recharge in order to keep it up or as i said before they will lash out. I apologize and we move on. Just that we only show it in private place. People try to tap into that vulnerability and "twist the knife" unless I hide it from them. Why Do Libras Hide Their Feelings? Over a long period of time, she may find that her life is entirely different than before. But..we can also be the greatest ally and nurturer you have ever known in your life. Because it's almost impossible to feel sorry for them. :( Bad ex maybe? Do Libras Hide Their Emotions? Did not tap out because I do not believe in giving up easily in love. I am leaving him in God's hands because I know one day he will pay for all these sick acts he's committed. Because of this, she may start spending time with new people or strengthen relationships with other friends. When it comes to our fakeness, I put on a smiley face on every single freaking morning even if dying inside, because it's not fair to people who surround me. They seem cool, and often emotionless but often there's a storm of feelings inside. I get along with Virgos and Scorpios just fine. Wow! I'm kind of upset these dark sides don't match me. Most Libras are quick to put a wall up to protect themselves from insecure, jealous, judgemental, negative, condescending people who attack them. Those born in the first week of October are prone to depression (saturn decan) due to their repressed emotions and hide it so well. The word baddie was created because of them. Cancer. If you make the point to be present in her life, then she will appreciate the support that you are offering her. Why not radiate Love instead, and shine your light bright enough to dissipate any shadow you happen upon? Its a constant battle. I have had issues with her for over 15 years. (tall, thin, blond). Yeah I do see these traits in myself I just find it happens when I'm being too nice or something and I always seem to attract the wrong people. Im working on how to tell which person I should be friends with and people just taking advantage of me. As you know im a libra and have a pretty hard time saying no so i find people can see that and then after a bit take advantage of that and sometimes just use me and then after a while it all just builds up into sadnesss and anger and its just ahhhh idk how to get rid of it lol oh yeah and i smile and laugh at my own misery alot idk why but i find it funny. When she reacts in an inappropriate manner, it is likely that she will push people away from her. Vindictive and nosy. There's three types of Libra Suns: Libras who have Mercury in Virgo, Libras who have Mercury in Scorpio, and Libras who have Mercury in Libra. if you think you're leave a Libra or divorced him/her absolutely you thinking wrong We are spend 2-3 hours before buy/sell something so if we really don't want to leave we would never let you go. Off course, I am not going to vent on strangers when I am wronged by a close one as it will not be justified. RELATED: The Negative Personality Traits Of The Scorpio Zodiac Sign, According To Astrology. I love, appreciate, care and support all those close ones who accept and love me for who I am. I'm surrounded by Librans in my family, was married to one for 15 years and I have a strong Libran energy with 4 planets in the 7th house (including sun, mercury and venus). He prayed for my downfall so i can need him. Be Mysterious. In person with me he followed me around my campus and was excessively "helpful". But charming when she wants info from us. Here's why. They thrive on making things orderly and aesthetically pleasing. So.. (how do I express myself without sounding like a total Libra) I would love to discuss some of the points of this article just to shine light from the PERSONAL perspective not to justify our behaviour, not to disrespect other points of views, but just to try and explain. There are Librans whom I both like and despise for this quality, depending on what they've got to say. My family and friends are being very supportive while my lover soon to be my ex is just busy with his new job. She wants to feel free and keep it light, turning away naturally from people whose characteristics feel too negative or intense for her. I, possibly am the most un-materialistic human being. While I am now guilty of generalizing also, I have to say that I know that depending on the time one is born under the Libra sign, as well as at which day in October can all play a part in a Libra being the exception to the rule as far as whether they exhibit classic Libra traits. im not saying all libras are like this but my mother certainly is. Take time to self-reflect and grow as a person. every sign has a dark side but a libra??? RELATED: What Makes Sagittarius Different? I, love helping people and animals and LOVE them. When Libras are healthy they are funloving, charming and very intelligent. What Calipreston said made my heart sink!! she can do as she pleases. I am a libra male born on September 23rd. glil ou. I used to call her a best friend but she is far from it. They become unmotivated, hopeless, and start to over-think everything. Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. The whole atmosphere around her changes when things don't go her way, and it's scary! Most Emotionally Strong Zodiac Signs. So heres my opinion on us (Librans.). Who knows. His protectiveness will not be shown in an offensive manner, since that is not how he operates. 1) He acts shy when he is around you. i would wonder why she never was nice to me. Unfortunately, some people are selfish, insensitive, and don't know how to value a sincere person like myself. The alarm bells were ringing, I was no longer denying the gut and i made sure I got her whole astrology chart (on the pretense of performing a compatibility report for her new Prey). Because Ive never seen that side of him. I've been taken advantage a o lot by just caring too much and i get furious i throw all that hate in my family witch they do not deserve it .but at the end family is my home is when i want people to understand me, to listen me when im angry when im sad when i need a advise .we need to take care of ourselves but we do not do it because we put in priority others . I, might be a good actor to not-so-close people, or to be more accurate, the mirror - to be exact same reflection of themselfs. Don't take this as a sign of weakness or to underestimate use.v.e.r. After the beginning of the year she started being more flirtatious. They usually have a sense of "me against the world," which can make them feel helpless when depression hits. They are the true incarnations of the narcissists! So I think it's a useful observation, but in no way it should put other Libras down. yes, avoiding confrontation is not a tenable objective and will lead to outbursts (what's term in the title- yes, repressed); people born in October avoid confrontation, no = can't be proven. I am taurus with a highly aries dominance,and i just want to puke thinking about libras utterly shameful fakeness. Munay, I am a Libra and I have to disagree on every aspects lol for me personally I do good until Im messed over as soon as you mess over me its over with. Secondly, most of the time we have no absolute clue how to deal with ourselves. Looking back, she loved it when I was down, positively revelled in it!! He'll keep a lid on his feelings. when i say spiritual abuse, she was always in to some different religion even witchcraft at one point. But that is a learned thing. I was 9 y/o and he was 16. How on earth can a libra lie so long,bring up drama and then pretend to be a peace maker. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. But if they open up, their anger and sadness could lead to disaster. Absolutely, every sign except for that poison scorp. I'm not. But this just my super bad experiences with them. Libra's born with out an earth sign to ground them.are doomed to wander their life trying to find meaning and purpose while taking in the entire universe and not knowing what to do with any of it. I will never approach you or talk to you because I already gotten more than a 1k people that you know and I know on my side. In fact she spent a good time saying she expected to speak to my partner, but in a very roundabout way! 4.) Manipulators bring nothing but pain and headaches according to any Libra. When she feels that she is doubtful or uncertain about her decisions and her future, she may decide that the best course of action is to avoid people and conversations. My experience with libras is dark. Trust me, I am a Libra I know what kind of demon we can be. Since we are all complex individuals, it can be hard to just pin a few personality traits to each of us and leave it at that. Libra These folks are really the sweetest! I didn't realize it until reading some of the things and saw it was talking about me. We libras are very difficult people for families to get along with. Since Aries is known for being very blunt, they may say something that cuts Libra deep. They are tooo real people to be fake. I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. He used to bully me when I was a child in every nasty way you can think of. If you notice that she has isolated herself, then you should take the time to teach yourself about what happens when a Libra woman is sad. I eventually had enough of Libra guy. Break out of your shell and be the life of the party. (Mr. Libra perceived that as "popular"). Until after we became roommates did I see time & time again her inability to ever defend me. We are intelligent, but we do need a lot of guidance. The men. Mr Libra 2 also had LOT of Scorpio. Most things are always flowery in tone. They are the most hypocritical people, will never hear the truth from them. He started as a lawyer, but quit and became famous for passive resistance. They don't do petty gossip; instead, they pride themselves on being a person people can confide in. If you're into astrology and zodiac signs, you know the general personality traits and mannerisms for each sign especially your own. Yes, at this point I'm the meanest person i know. When she shares her feelings with you, be certain to show her that you are willing and able to provide her emotional and intellectual support. Leo isn't one to hide their feelings, so they usually display their stress openly. It's hard to be happy for someone you don't genuinely click with. I found out later they talked on the phone after my wife told me. the least balanced sign. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. Sorry for that. Libra simply makes up LIES any tells opposite stories to each person so that those two people who may not even know one another, are upset about (false) claims originally made up by the Libra. Yes I do throw tantrums and become manipulative but only when I am wronged and taken advantage of for a long time. It's extremely unfair to call Sylvia Browne a fake psychic. You look and sound evil and very quite bitter. Throughout the years we dated other people but always kept in contact with each other. I will never justify our dark side. trying to be frends with my friends cos she doesnt have any.. she wud sit in the room with her guys.. when they leave she comes and sits in the room where im relaxing with my frends. Aries (March 21 April 19) "While Aries can be charmed by Libra for a while, one thing Aries can't stand is neediness," Monahan says. This article and comments have really opened my eyes. But talk to damn much. Those born on cusps etc, may be very different than the normal Libra. Wants two men at one time, expecting both to remain while she decides, but they better not find another woman while the libra is deciding. Even though they do love their mother, greatly, their elemental make up naturally gravitates towards mine, only on the basis that we understand each other on a level she will never understand, she is a Virgo sun/Cancer moon. Tell me, what can make you cr And I do know many people who fit this above profile but are not Librans and also not related to Libra in general. Libra is one of the most balanced signs, but when depressed, they tend to have feelings of instability and moodiness, with a reduced urge to socialize. I'm a Capricorn who's been getting to know this Libra male. Met my wife in early 2000. Lets not forget Vladimir putin ffs! By hurtful i mean really hurtful libras observe and are very diplomatic, they watch your everyday behavior ask you lots of questions if they are interested and learn about you enough just to be able to push the right buttons to hurt you. Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. RELATED: What An Aquarius Really Thinks About You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign. This content is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. I have been in 3 relationships in my life and the the 3 of them are Libra. Pretty damn true. Depends on the day of the month you were born. 10/17 libra seeking balance on September 06, 2016: I am a Libra male and lately I have been feeling disconnected from myself(sign). Very childlike. I am supposed to get along with this sign but it is the one I like the least. Libra guy 2 met me and my husband "TOGETHER" at a college Christmas party. They know what needs to be done in order to get what they want,and its most likely theyll get it one way or another. You should have gone to the shrink when he asked you to! angry messages from friends and acquaintances without any apparent cause. im sure its not just the libra in her, she is a narcissist. Invite her somewhere she feels comfortable, and ensure that she feels that you are concerned about her well-being. This is VERY VERY INACCURATE. Please consult your doctor before taking any action. And I suspect that he would sexually rape his ex-wife little sister when she was about 10 y/o and I was about 14, but then I never had any proofs of it nor she ever said anything about it, like I myself never did say a word with fear, when I was being raped for all those nights. 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